Sri Swami Satchidananda gave us very practical advice about forming good friendships Instead of focusing on what we do or don’t like about another person, he encouraged us to make friends by becoming a good friend. This means embodying the kindness and compassion we want to find in others, and sincerely thinking of their best interests. If we are really committed to our own spiritual growth, we will no doubt attract others who appreciate that dedication and can support us on the spiritual path.
-Swami Ramananda